Published by Eoz Eanj in the blog Eoz Eanj's blog.
Can someone really love you, if their heart is broken?
This is such a leading question that I'm fearful of posting at all. But, I'd have to say that that would depend on the person. For me no. I could bond with someone in the same condition but love, no.
I believe love to be a choice. Sure there are gooey feelings that go with it but, in the end, you choose to love someone.
So, I think, yes.
Hearts mend. A broken heart is an altered state, a vulnerable state, so it will be a challenge to know what bond is there when the heart heals.
But true love transcends emotional states. Only time will tell what is truly there.
Yes, because I think that in alot of ways, love really is conditional. People don't like to believe it, but it's true.
Whether trust can remain, i'm not sure. I think that's the real thing that takes time to mend; trusting someone to love you, whilst hoping that your love won't be wasted.
I think it depends on the person too, though. There are people that I don't believe are capable of loving.
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