Does Anyone Not Understand My Opinion

By Leaka · Dec 2, 2011 · ·
  1. I'm so tired of people saying I'm controlling or I only want it one way. When the truth is this, I get the feeling they only want it one way. They get mad at the fact that I don't include everyone in the game, but if someone else has an obligation towards something else they cannot make it to another minor obligation that's fine. We don't need to please everyone. All my life I have been extremely unpopular. No one has ever listened to my opinions. You cannot say my opinions matter, and then contradict themselves by telling me I'm being controlling. I'm only stating something with my personality, that's who I am. They want me to respect them, but tey don't give me an ounce of respect. And the moment that I do something against their beliefs, I'm the asshole while they stay squeaky clean.

Comments

  1. Boomfog
    So I wanna ask, "what happened?" but I think I get it, anyway.

    Everyone prefers their own opinion. Well, to avoid generalization, most people prefer their own opinion. In your case, your personality is either what's unappealing or you just keep meeting stubborn people. If they (whoever you're really referring to) don't like what you have to say or do, then oh well. You're right; you can't please everyone. But if it's really bothering you to the point where you'd like someone to listen, then figure out a way to alter what's so "controlling" about you.

    Or, you know, meet new people.

    I'm terrible at advice, but there you go, haha.
  2. alyosha
    What did you really expect anyway.
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