Furious

By Rei · Aug 7, 2008 · ·
  1. It's been six months. He's not over me. I've pretty much forgotten about him. I don't get upset when I work on my book about my time in residence, when I was dating him. I can look at his picture. I can even listen to romantic songs we liked to listen to together.

    Today, I logged onto facebook and found that my jackass of an ex boyfriend had hacked into my account and not only changed my profile picture, and put some nasty things on my wall and in my status but also deleted all of my friends. Now I have a friend who thinks I'm overreacting and to her not showing up when we had plans to go to a movie and I didn't get the message on time that she would not be there.

    I have lost so much this year. This morning, before I signed on, I was just a little upset because I had caused a glitch on the computer. Now, I don't know what to do. Should I ignore him? Should I tell him I know it was him?

    I had moved on. I planned on going to a speed dating event next week to try to meet new people and maybe date again. Now, I am just so angry that I can hardly think. I didn't hate him before. As badly as it ended, I accepted it because I knew we were never right for each other to begin with. This is just too much. I hate him.

Comments

  1. lessa
    he wants your reaction to be beautifully public.
    fix the account. change your password, and let it go.

    an ex of mine couldn't get over me and actually sent cruise tickets for my husband and I for our honey moon.
    Now that was a bit extreme in my opinion. But had fun cutting the tickets into little bits of confetti and mailing them back.

    I guess it takes all kinds to make the world but we could do with a few less bozo's.
  2. Rei
    That's pretty much what I'm doing. It just pisses me off that he would do that. If I could forget, why not him?
  3. starrynight89
    Wow, that must've been horrible! I'm sorry and I hope you get through it! :) It sort of seems like an act to get attention. I think you should let him know that this is unacceptable. Oh and I dont think you are overreacting, I'd be pissed too.
  4. Rei
    The overreacting wasn't to what he did, it was what my friend thought I did to her because she didn't show up to a movie.
  5. illuminati
    1) Change all your passwords and pin numbers. Re-think new kinds of passwords that he won't be able to guess with the knowledge he has of you.

    2) Dating is fine, but you're furious and you have a lot of passion burning up inside you. USE IT!!! Write, damn it! Get that passion out onto a page and the writing will be the best you've ever done! :)

    Good luck!
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