I Win!!! :)

By AngryGirl6 · Mar 13, 2008 · ·
  1. So I went back to the apartment to get my stuff and was able to get in legally cuz the other lease holder let me in. Luckily my ex wasn't there, but when I got in, my cats had been left with no food or water. So I was about halfway back to my boss's house (where I'm staying) when I get a call from my job telling me that my ex's mom was calling my store over and over, demanding to know where I was cuz I "broke in and vandalized and burglarized her son's apartment" which is crap, cuz I have 5 witnesses, including one of the leaseholders, to testify on my behalf. I called the police to make sure I wasn't gona get arrested at work and the cop told me there was nothing they could do and that I could actually file charges on his mom for harassment and slander, so I did.
    So that's done and over with and now I'm just left with... this seeping dissapointment, kind of just trying to understand how I could've been so wrong about someone. And the thing is... I really loved this guy (and still kind of do) and it's weird that we're not together and I'm sad but... I'm also relieved. I'm tired of being accused of cheating (I've never cheated in my life) and I'm sick of having to prove myself again and again but at the same time, I just try to keep reminding myself that yeah, I'm only 21 and better and nicer guys will come along.
    I've never been engaged before and he was definately my deepest love but it sucks that it took as long as it did for his true colors to come out.
    Bleh... I duno. I'm going to give it about 6 months (at least) before allowing myself to date again. The guy I was dating right before this guy passed away very suddenly and right now... I just kind of need some time to grieve, 'ya know?:confused:




    "I came here to rock ass, or chew bubblegum, and I'm all out of bubblegum."- Lil' Bush

Comments

  1. soujiroseta
    glad you got your stuff back legally and sorry about the other guy who passed away. you seem more optimistic than your previous posts and thats cool to see:)(hands AngryGirl6 a stick of gum)just keep on smiling:D
  2. Cogito
    You should grieve over both relationships. The oft-lamented rebound relationship usually comes about because you didn't fully put the other relationship behind before entering into a new one. Therefore you tend to look for one which is very similar to the one you just left, one that feels familiar and comfortable.

    You can be sure that his mom was fed a very biased version of your relationship from him, obne that presents him as the injured party. In addition, she may have shaded the truth even from what she knew out of protectiveness. As they say, blood is thicker than water.

    But I'm glad you had the chance to retrieve your possessions, and also glad you had witnesses who could vouch for your behavior at the time.

    Too bad you found yourself with the sludge at the bottom of the gene pool.
  3. AngryGirl6
    lol yeah I feel like a bad ass right now. Still a little sad, naturally, but at least I proved who was smarter
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