I'm gona be a mommy...

By AngryGirl6 · Mar 23, 2008 · 620 · 6
  1. I know it's only been three days that I've known but... I'm having this baby. I'm scared ****less, and I have no idea what's going to happen, but I'm having my baby. (hopefully a baby girl)
    I tried to bring myself to look up the abortion information online and it just made me cry. I totally hear all the time, like Torana said on my last blog, that no mother would trade their kid(s) for anything in the world. I realized today that the only reason I don't want to have this kid is because I'm afraid of not being able to support it but my best friend told me where there's a will there's a way...
    My family wants me to keep it...
    My friends don't...
    I've decided I'm not taking this baby's life away because I'm scared of my ex and my cash flow.
    Tonight I found out I have to move out of my bosse's house in May. I'm going to move in with my sister. She's church going, two kids... it's going to be boring but... it's where I need to be right now. It's a good enviroment.
    So...
    Wow. I'm gona be a mommy.
    Wish me luck. :) lol

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  1. Charisma
    Best wishes with it! I'm hope you're going enjoy the experience, and you'll be able to manage it.
    Charisma, Mar 23, 2008
  2. Cogito
    I do wish you luck. It is a huge adjustment, to be sure. But parenthood is very rewarding, eventhough it is the toughest job you will ever have.

    Fortunately, kids seem to develop most of their personality and values from the parents that raise them, not necessarily the parents who donated genes. Some of the most wonderful children I know have creeps for fathers, but were raised by fine mothers.
    Cogito, Mar 23, 2008
  3. Torana
    Awww I'm so very proud of you! (sends the biggest hugs)

    You won't find it easy, but you don't have to go it alone. Being scared shows you are human :) you will be scared for the rest of your life now really. Every day a new fear arises, the first step, will they fall and bump their head, first day of school, heck when they are born, will they feed ok or not, how the heck do I bath this tiny little angel?

    You'll get there, don't stress. And moving in with your sister sounds like a good thing. She will be there to lend a hand as you need it. Family is good for that sometimes. But remember, what is good for one, is not always good for the other. Take advice and work it to suit you, your pregnancy and your child when the time comes.

    I really am proud of you, this is a huge step, but will be so very rewarding and as I said, I'm here for support and so are many others here as well :)

    Big hugs and lots of support

    Torana
    Torana, Mar 23, 2008
  4. soujiroseta
    congratulations!!!!!!i wish torana hadn't said everything i had planned to say:p really it's a beautiful thing having a baby
    soujiroseta, Mar 24, 2008
  5. Torana
    and you know everyday I wondered how I would support my two angels when I left their father. I didn't think I would manage at all. But I have managed to and I have given them so much more than they have ever had in their lives. Don't worry about it, it all works out just fine in the end. You learn pretty quickly how to do things that at one point in life were impossible to do.
    Torana, Mar 25, 2008
  6. zorell
    There's two kinds of new parents, the Brave, and the Worried, but don't worry you'll be a little of both as the little one grows up;)
    zorell, Jul 22, 2008
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