Realization.

By Eoz Eanj · Jan 2, 2010 · ·
  1. If any positive has come out of my Mother's passing, it has been the realization that all the petty, contemptuous nonsense that goes on in my life is an utter waste of energy and should be completely disregarded. I remember before my Mum passed, she used to tell me quite often that the reason why she stayed inside, away from people, is that because they're so judgmental. They are seemingly sick with this constant need to feel superior to everyone they meet. She told me however, that instead of getting angry with them, and trying to put up a fight against their egotism, that I should just smile and be polite ; 'it's a waste of time fighting the tide', she'd say. I never quite understood that until now. I was always a very passive-aggressive person. I guess it's only when someone so incredibly invaluable is taken from you, that you realize what is truly important. After all, we're all in a pursuit of happiness so to speak, so why bother with all the interruption?

Comments

  1. Cogito
    Reminders of mortality do make us take a fresjh look at our lives and priorities, and that is assuredly a positive.

    It's a shame that it takes such a loss to make us rethink our lives. But I don't doubt that your mother would be happy that you were able to take new lessons from her in her passing.

    Peace and strength.
  2. Torana
    The sad thing is that it is quite often the case Zoe. Us not learning certain life lessons until the moment someone is take from our lives.

    Your mom will be very proud that you have found something to take away from this tragic loss. Your mother was a very wise woman and I know you learnt a lot from her.

    Take care love.
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