The day after I praise the boards...

By Marshmallow · Jul 19, 2009 · ·
  1. ...I get IP banned. I don't know what it was about, but I got on today and it said an admin IP banned me.

    Later the ban was lifted, but I was still quite curious as to what happened. I thought that maybe someone got all offendicated over something I said in the theology thread, but then I realized that no one would care about what some young whipper snapper had to say anyway, let alone take offense to it.

    Regardless, today I found out this chick I was talking to started dating one of her exes again...big deal, right? Well here's the story:

    We were talking for quite some time, and the only place we really see each other is at church. I mean, yeah, we can both drive, but we're both really busy. So anyway, one day she makes the offhand remark that she doesn't want me to ask her out at church. I take this in, thinking to be the clever creative person and, you know, listen to what she said and not ask her out at church.

    I finally get to the point where I'm willing to dive in, you know, to make that big commitment (and I have really bad trust issues, so this is hard for me). I call her to see if she's home, no answer. I stop by anyway, no one home.

    So I get a little worried cuz she won't return my calls and I haven't seen her at church.

    Well, yesterday a guy tried to add me on myspace...and I was kind of curious as to why he would have a picture of him kissing this girl I've been talking to as his default.

    Turns out she started dating this guy because she thought I was ignoring her. Her justification: she gave me plenty of opportunities to ask her out and I never took them. My question: when? Her response: "Why do you think I went to church all those Wednesdays when we were talking?"

    -.-

    WHAT THE HELL?!?!?!

    She told me that this guy (apparently one of her many ex-boyfriends) just started texting her. He asked her out and now they're dating. And now I'm pissed.

    I brought it to her attention that it was her dumb ass that told me not to ask her out at church. I also talked to her about going over to her house.

    She's being a total dykeasaurus rex about it too, laying blame and stuff. It doesn't really seem like my fault, but nothing really does from my perspective.

    Was I in the wrong guys? Help me better understand this situation.

Comments

  1. Xeno
    Hey, I don't think you're in the wrong. If someone tells you to do something, they should expect you to do just that, not the exact opposite. Sounds like she's playing games with you a bit. But don't give up hope, is all I can say. :)

    And I don't know about the Theology thread, I never posted in it because I knew that I would definately start an arguement. :D
  2. ERE5 M
    My advice would be to just ignore her from here on out. If she is going to play games with you and go out with another guy, let her. She is clearly immature.

    Side note...I had a girl completely crushing on me at church (she's 19 i'm 24) and I basically tried to maintain the sanctity of the church by keeping my distance...but she actually ended up following me out one day and asking me to go out. Of course, she was too normal for me, too young, naive, inexperienced in relationships, and I really don't want go through the whole maturing process with someone again. So I never called her again but still see her at church and she still gives me th eyes, and I feel really awkward.

    Is it me or do girls not know what "just friends" means? Crap now I'm sounding like a girl....and crap i'm rambling in a comment on your blog....time to stop this
  3. amateur
    nope. if a girl really likes u she won't give up. i got the guy i'm currently going out with to split up with his ex for me. wev'e been together since August now
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