The Good Thing About ...

The good thing about this website is that someone or some thing may hurt your feelings or upset you but it goes by so fast you can forgettaboutit !

And goes by quickly with lots & lots of members & guests!

The good thing about the same thing happening to you over and over again is that eventually you learn not to put yourself in that situation. ANYone, doesn't matter how smart or stupid you are, reacts negatively to pain. If your ex-husband slaps you in the face, well, from then on you flinch when he raises his hand. And enough slaps, enough raises of the hand, enough flinches - well, you know you have to move on.

I've always thought it was odd that my ex-husband didn't understand he'd have to experience the consequences of his behavior towards me - not because I was seeking revenge or trying to punish him, but because pulling away from him was a natural response.

Of course there are masochists, who for some strange reason, actually like to be hurt but even those people put themselves so far out there that even they will eventually die - emotionally if not physically.

Inflicting pain on someone you care about is not in the natural progression of a relationship.

If a good wife can't leave she'll detach emotionally to save herself.

The good thing about employment is that I get to leave a small world and visit a larger world - larger than my apartment and certainly larger than the little tiny microscopic hole I look through when I watch TV or when I'm on the internet. I get so caught up in what is unreal I forget what's really important.

Channels change, pop stars are reborn everyday, the internet flows from one place to the next within minutes. What's popular is like the short life of a fly.

Everything is ok! It's really ok!

Differences

Good - they're always there.
Bad - it's a struggle to work through them.

Knowing

I don't know everything.
I do know the difference between right and wrong.

Consequences

Everyone, every freakin' person in the world has to live with them.

Compassion and fairness

Relationships - you understand me.
I understand you. That's the way it works.

Opinions - everybody has one. The bad thing - everybody thinks his or her opinion is right. The good thing - we all have the right to think what we want. So what is it about opinions that are so revealing? I don't know. At this point, I wish to have no opinion.

The good thing about having my own set of ethics,
my own beliefs in morality,
my own rules of engagement on a higher road
is that I know who to listen to and who not to.

You, with your desperation, your emptiness,
your cruelty and deception - you would attempt to advise me?
Don't advise me how. Don't advise me why. Don't explain yourself.

I know all I need to know about you.
And it's more than I want to know.

The good thing about relationships is that you have them.
The most difficult, for me, is that I can't tell
if someone's fussin' at me cause he's jealous
or because he doesn't like me
and wishes I was dead.

The good thing about being a little tipsy

is, I tell the truth!

And here's some advice.
Yeah I love a big pecker now and then
but you, don't you love the women
who want to use you and manipulate you.
Want to use you for power control
& only care about you when you're romantic
with them.
Love the ones who care about you
no matter who or what you are.
The ones who love you & forgive you
& accept you just the way you are.

But ya see
I've said this a million times.
Is anyone listening?

See, I'll be here no matter what.
I won't threaten to leave
if I don't get my way.
I'm here cause I love ya!

However, I do wish you'd be nice to me.