What is my argument when I write?

It seems I am ruint when writing because of e-mail or general writing. I babbled a lot and paid no attention to any points I've made, if I made them. I am at war with using words when writing because everyone has there opinions and points they want to make when writing. When I e-mailed others I never ever thought about editing, never! I for one do not believe in the word perfect. I understand the English language to a point or words if you wish. The question is, is there hope for me because of the way I believe? writer one