What hurts more for you?

[Nikhil]

I have never posted my work for review yet so I have no experience.

[Brandon_Trotter]

To me critiqing is not hurtful, just so long as it is constructive critiqing. I try to learn from the critiqing I recieve. Although to be honest there are times I try to ignore some comments that I do not like. Especaily, if I am happy with what I wrote and the critiquer is being very nit-picky. But, the majority of time I listen whole heartedly to what ever the critiquers sugest. I think critiquing is best from a stanger just so long as their knowledgable. I belive that if you do not know the person realy well and they are critiqing your work they are more likely to tear your work to shread ( if it desveres that ) than a freind who may be concerend for your feelings.