That actually works quite well with my mental image. A quick head-band to pull all that blondness back and I can absolutely see you growing into a version of your avatar.
You know there's a picture of grown-up me on Twitter, right? I grew out of being blonde, for anyone who cares.
The picture on Twitter doesn't work for me. I prefer this one. ETA: although the TwitPic might be okay if you added a headband...
I'd be totally fine either way. If someone wants to know which gender I am, all they have to do is click on my avatar. How people address me doesn't make a iota difference to what I am
I think this thread is good - honesty is hard, but it's important. We're all getting to know each other better, and... it's beautiful.
I'm so simple that when I joined this forum, I assumed you were a woman 'cause instead of a cock rooster there's a chicken in your avatar. Also, I think you talked about perfumes in some thread... But hey, you could've been a man and I would've made an ass out of myself with my ass-umptions. I think I thought @Tenderiser was Rick from the Young Ones when I first saw her avatar.
Honestly, I now see @KaTrian as some kind of female Steve Irwin (much prettier) stroking an anaconda (not a euphemism).
Alas, I do not share your love or enthusiasm for the slithery, scaly anaconda. Snakes are beautiful from afar and scary up close. The anaconda mentioned in that eargasmic, complex masterpiece of a song by Nicki Minaj I quite enjoy, though. If my avatar pic wasn't blurred, I'd look surprisingly a lot like Steve Irwin.
Oh, is it actually you in the pic? I tend to assume people's avatars aren't them, even when it's a human that matches their gender.
Yeah, apart from a short period of time when I had a colorful Snufkin avatar, I've had my own mug there.
My avatar is me before I was. Or part of me. Genetically, I mean. It's a drawing my grandfather did of my grandmother, a hundred years ago when they were dating in high school.
I was thinking before you get an avatar it has a symbol of what gender you chose (or a question mark). Maybe you could like hover your mouse over a person's avatar and it reveals this again?
You can tell a person's gender by clicking their avatar!? That would've been so helpful to know . . . I can't tell you how many times I've had to rewrite something because I didn't know whether the person I was addressing was a "he" or "she," and I was too embarrassed to guess wrong (mostly due to guessing a friend's gender wrong in a game . . . in front of their other friends . . . it was quite embarrassing though they thought it was hilarious). I feel so alone without an avatar to confuse people. My brother's supposed to be drawing it, but it's taking him forever.