i was trying to write a sex scene and all that came out was a few mills and boons type of paragrahs. So here is my question. Is it ok to use the basic words like erection instrad of dodgy ones like bulging manhood when you have to use them a few times within a few scentences instead of changing it up and using all sorts of dodgy ones. Also, apart from pace, language and action how do you get across what is happening with out being too obvious and having to explain it all. Just looking for ideas on how other people write sex scenes so i can improve my own without trawling through all the erotic fiction sites.