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    Rudness

    Discussion in 'The Lounge' started by Princes, Dec 15, 2006.

    What are your thoughts on people been rude.
    Do you think its ok to be rude to others.

    Or does Rudness appalle you.
     
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    of course it's not ok... why would it be?...

    and, if i may offer some caring correction [which some might rudely put rudely ;-) ], it's 'being rude' and 'rudeness' and 'appall' [no 'e']...

    love and hugs, maia
     
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    Princes,

    I try to avoid being rude. Even if someone is rude first. I used to feel a little different about it but now, I'm like why waste the energy on an idiot! :)

    Why do you ask?
     
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    Because I just feel a level of rudness of late by other people and i'm just trying to work out in my head why some people in this world are rude.
    So i just basically wondered what you all thought about rudness and wanted to see who'd reply to this thread.
     
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    Well that all depends on who's been Rude to you and why.
    Have you maybe annouyed them in some way to cause them to be Rude to you.
    People are generally only Rude if someones upset them.



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    i cannot stand people who are rude, i think it is out of order. and i tend to get very mouthy when someone is rude to me. there is no excuse for bad mannors.
    heather
    :)
     
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    What kind of rude are you talking about? 'Cause you know, rude people are decent human beings...just like prostitutes. In fact I remember just last month I paid somebody to jerk me off, punch me in the face and rub soap in my eyes. It's called "Rude love"
     
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    My apologies, that was rude. But it's all in good fun.
     
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    There's nothing wrong with being rude in general, it's a perfectly healthy human behaviour. There may be times and places where rudeness is undesirable, which is fine, for example a forum such as this might have a low tolerance of rudeness in the interests of maintaining harmony, but in general we should expect not only to encounter rudeness, but to learn to deal with it.

    Cheers,
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    Agreed.
    Rudness is a part of life and everyone has been Rude to another in their life time and to think other wise is foolish. Sometimes been abit Rude is necassary.

    Get over it and as Rob states yo have to learn to deal with it.
    myself I never let anything as silly as rudness bother me.
     
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    Well as has been already said, it is a part of life.

    Basically if you are rude to someone, you have to be ready for them to be rude right back at ya. What goes around comes around I'm afraid.
     
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    what pisses me off is lack of respect. I am rude sometimes, but I pretty much know when I am rude and regret what I say. But Rudness is rudness. It will happen, it's a part of human nature.
     
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    so, exactly what is 'rudness'?... sounds like blushing, t'me! ;-)

    btw, that wasn't 'rudeness'... just a bit of goodnatured banter...

    hugs, m
     
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    Well I think been Rude is way bang out of order and I'm not into Rude people.
    Theres enough going on in this world everyday soldiers are dying everyday people are killing each other.
    So i don't think its a lot at to ask people not to be rude.

    Rudness Appals me its just uncalled for and inconsiderate.
     
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    Princes can you honestly say you haven't been rude to anyone EVER.
    I don't believe that do you?





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    In honesty no never.
     
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    Really well you must be the one and only person ever.
    Maybe you have been Rude and been unaware of it.

    I know I've been rude to people yeah i do regret it afterwoods but i can't take back the things I've said.
    But I can oppologise for the things I've said if I've realised that I have been Rude.
     
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    Your not me so please do not assume to think that I have ever been rude to anyone I haven't.
    I like to think i was brought up politly and not with obnocious rudness and ignorance.
     
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    I'm not saying I am you.
    What I said was maybe you were rude to someone and you didn't realise.
    Its really not a big issue.

    I just find it hard to believe that a single person has never been rude or ignorant.
    We all are from time to time its simply in our nature.
     
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    Well Im not Rude ever. I do get annouyed with people who are persistant for no reason but Im not rude ever.
     
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    well you do surprise me Princes you really do.
     
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    Why?
     
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    That surpirses me.
    Your getting all wound up now for no real reason. This is only a debate and i can't understand why your becoming so defensive.

    I wasn't calling you rude i was saying maybe you've been rude and not realised.
    Have you fallen out with anyone.
     
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    No i haven't and thats not your buisiness is it my life is my life and if i say i haven't been rude then i haven't been rude.
    I know my own mind and I would know if i were been rude to anyone.
    I haven't
    So stop assuming that I have.
    because I haven't.
     

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