I read a blog article tonight that gave me the idea to post this... If someone were to confess that they have a "crush" on your husband/wife/significant other, how would you feel? Is it wrong? Is it harmless? I've actually had this happen before. Now, whenever I see the girl in public, I fight the urge to choke her. She constantly bats her eyes at my fiance and smiles at him, knowing good and well I'm there and that he's taken. Have I said anything to her? No. Will I if given the chance or reason? Hell yes! Why didn't I act whenever I found out about the crush? Because it happened via Facebook and there was nothing I could have done then. I'd much rather confront the girl in person. I'm just waiting for her to "flirt" with him to actually act.