So this character of mine, is a woman and a mother in the 50's living in a rural farming area. She was quite a beauty, and was courted by a wealthy man in her youth. She rejected this man, for the one she was in love with. He was poor, and had no background or future. He ended up dying, and leaving her responsible for two children. One that happens to be disturbed (a mental illness they weren't very aware of at the time, I haven't yet decided). Her husband dying changed her, made her want the best for her children and rule out love. So it wouldn't make sense for her to be courted would it? I mean she would, if it were a wealthy man but would a wealthy man seek out a widowed woman with two children? What's the courting scenario that makes the most sence? or should I eliminate it altogether?