Appreciate life when the enormous waves are calm. Enjoy the sun when it shines. Have a look at the beautiful rainbow when the rain stops, before the storm comes. When we walk through a storm in life, we wonder will the storm ever come to an end. Will the sun ever shine again and will we ever see the rainbow. Waking up in the morning, finding out the enormous waves haven’t calmed yet. On the next day, we realize we are still walking in through the same tough winds and we are still walking in through the same heavy rains. We doubt, will this storm last for ever. Will we never have a brighter life. We stay positive and we remain calm. We just let it go. We believe, whatever happens in life we never know what tomorrow brings to us. We don’t lose faith and we don’t lose hope. We never know what is waiting for us. Tomorrow is a new day. A new day might brings a new bright life. A new best friend. A new opportunity and a new happiness. As we grow up in life, we realize life is like an ocean. Some days the waves are calm. Some days the storms are tough to walk in through and no one is there to support us neither to walk with us. Other days the waves are enormous and the storms are sharp to wipe us out then eventually the sun will shine again and we will see the rainbow!
A story of happiness or sadness. Failure or success. Suffering and pain or joyful and blissful. A sad heartbroken or a beautiful love story. We never judge people by just meeting them, talking to them and acting with them. Then, we walk in hurry into making a relationship with them. In fact, Knowing the story that behind people help us have insight into what kind of people they are. It gives us another angle and point of view of looking at the same people. Sometimes we get admired by people who we just met and we hurry up into developing a relationship with them before we know or even ask ourselves about the story that behind them. However, as soon as we know the story that behind people, who we just met and developed a relationship with, we get impressed by the story that behind them. Sometimes we get shocked while other times we feel we were deceived. Regardless of what we get and how we feel, we need to keep in mind the fact that people are not just who we met, who we just talked to, laughed with and acted with. People sometimes are completely different than what we think of them. A valuable bit of wisdom is to ask ourselves what is the story that behind them? What story did they come from?!
Suddenly one day, we notice there is an affection was born in our heart towards someone. As human beings who are highly affected by emotions, we start to follow this affection to that person. We start to like talking to him, having conversations with him and getting closer to him. As a result, We treat him differently in the way we talk to him and the way we act and interact with him. We start to like everything about him and we start to enjoy every single moment with him. As soon as we spend more time with him, we notice the growth of this affection in our heart towards him. The more this affection grow is the more we become interested in getting even closer to him. However, life is a full of surprises, as soon as time opens up our eyes to the differences between us, we realize the incompatibility between us. We feel we were deceived by this affection. We find ourselves in a new position. We either walk away after all the affection we had for him or we walk with him after all the incompatibility we have realized by him!
Can we just walk away, leaving our affection behind our hearts?! Trying not to remember the time we had together, the talks of hearts we shared, the sound of laughs we heard from each other that reminds us with the sound of rain, the smile that we couldn't hide, the admire we saw in each other eyes, the happiness that we never felt before, and all of the moments of memories, and we just walk away. Can we leave our affection behind our hearts? and we just move on!
Suddenly one day, we find out we have affection towards someone. This affection starts to grow up, and we start to trust this affection time by time. As soon as we start to trust this affection, we sart to trust that person. We open a door in our heart for him after we opened just a window at the beginning. However, life is a full of surprises. As soon as time opens our eyes to wake us up, we start to realize that he isn't the right person for us. He isn't the compatible person with us. We feel sorry for the affection we had to him, we feel sorry for the trust we had to that affection and feel sorry for the trust we had to him. We go through a life storm of shocks, then we move on. It seems affection and compatibility work in two oppisite directions, sometimes!
We spend our whole life looking for a best friend. However, what is the best definition for a best friend? Isn’t the closest friend and the one who we have the longest relationship with? Why don't we treat ourselves as our best friend? Isn't ourselves the closest one and longest one to have a relationship with? Don’t we deserve to treat ourselves as best friend?!
Writing is all about inspiration, where ideas flow to the writer's mind as rain when it flows from the sky to the earth. Sometimes the rain that flows from the sky is a lot. Sometimes it is a little rain while there is a time when it's not raining. Similarly, inspiration is like rain. At sometimes ideas that inspire a writer are a lot. At other times ideas that inspire the writer are little. However, a hard time for a writer occurs when a time for writing comes while there is no inspired ideas flow to the mind. That's what writing is all about.
Writing is a beautiful and creative free-distraction way of expressing feelings and thoughts. Unlike, speaking, where there is who might disagrees with us, interrupts us, or even misunderstoods us before we finish talking. In writing, we have a free way completely where we express our feelings and thoughts till we finish. writing is like painting where pen is the brush and words are the colors (where choosing the suitable word is like choosing the suitable color). At the end of the day, it ends up with drawing a beautiful piece of a picture. Ooh sorry, it ends up with writing a beautiful piece of a writing.
Relationships are always different. Every relationship has a different starting. When a relationship starts, it goes through a honeymoon. However, what needed to be keept in mind at this stage is that, honeymoon is always too short even when we want it to last for one century. When a honeymoon ends, we feel that honeymoon sometimes ends even before we realized it started. At the end of the honeymoon, we feel honeymoon shouldn't come to an end at anytime. However, every relationship takes a different direction. Every relationship has a different ending (when it comes to an end), with hope not every relationship comes to an end. Every relationship has good times and hard times. However, the saddest part is when a relationship comes to an end (specially an early end) when we expect it to last, not for ever, but at least longer. It’s a highly sensitive and a very emotional aspect of life to go-through. What we expect and what we don't expect of a relationship is always different. Depending on our culture and character, on one hand, our background and how we grew-up, on the other hand. Everyone looks at it from a different perspective which is based on his own previous experiences in relationships. Every relationship we get out of, changes what we think of a relationship, what we expect of it, and how carefully we should be with it. After ending a relationship and moving on, as soon as we start a new relationship, it seems we tend to go-through the relationship in a more mature and experienced way. We don’t put much emotion in it as we used to, as it might ends up at any time for any reason. even though it is extremely hard to control our emotions. We don't even get shocked if it comes to an end.