yellowm&M May 7, 2009
So yeah late response I don't know if it'll actually do anything for you...probably not....but I'll respnd anyways

You haven't done anything wrong, its one thing to try and take her away from Mike, but you aren't doing that, you're stepping back and letting her decide what she wants to do. The fact that you're doing that and telling her that you'll be there is actually a really perfect thing to do, for most girls that would definately help them chose you because it is sort of like you are letting them be happy over your own happiness; slightly cliche but not bad at all.
So you are definately doing the right thing, if I was in your place I would do the same. :)