If there were a pill to make me straight, I would not take it

Discussion in 'Character Development' started by A.M.P., Jun 9, 2015.

  1. Oscar Leigh

    Oscar Leigh Contributor Contributor

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    I wasn't suggesting you didn't know. Just wanted a bit of a vent.:D Also to clarify the discussion for others and state my agreement
     
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    For years, my view has been that all people are fundamentally and deeply selfish. I never really believe people who claim to think of others first and act as if there's no "what about me?" in their thoughts. The core is always "what about me?" Only by accepting that, in fact embracing it, can you look around with clear enough eyes to sometimes be a strong and reliable help for others.

    That's my philosophy. It seems to not be entirely contradictory with what you say above.
     
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    no i'm British - my sister is in Australia on a permanent residency thing though
     
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    Yeah, but maybe not for the reason you would like :rolleyes:

    Humans stereotype each other according to group instead of looking at each other as individuals:

    "Muslims are terrorists" (the vast majority of the victims of ISIS are Muslims)

    "Gays are pedophiles" (pedophiles are disproportionately likely to be straight)

    "People on welfare are lazy" (the vast majority of them are working, and a very strong proportion are working multiple jobs)

    "Humans stereotype each other according to group instead of looking at each other as individuals" (... yeah :()​

    I believe that a great many people are deeply selfish, that it's a lot harder to find an extremely selfless person than it is to find an extremely destructive person, and that it's not possible to find somebody who's 100% selfless, but the Law of Large Numbers – and how strongly I dislike humanity's drive to dehumanize – makes me hesitate to say that there isn't somebody out of the 7.4 billion people in the world who comes pretty close.
     
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    Confused - in the Uk you pretty much can't get welfare unless you are unemployed (alledgedly you can work up to 16 hours a week, but in practice you may as well not bother signing on in those circumstances)
     
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    Huh. It's not like that on this side of the pond.
     
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    so, what you get welfare below a certain income threshold ? Interesting.

    In the UK we also have a thing called the working tax credit - but that's only any good if you earn over the taxable threshold (which is about 10k)
     
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    Why would that deserve an Oscar? I agree with him. But let's not strip words and awards of their meaning, please.
     
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    It's better than the foxtrot oscar i'm used to ;)

    you are right though - no acting talent was required to make that post
     
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    Minimum wage in the US is so low that you can be working more than full time and still be in poverty. (Edited to add: I don't know if it is or isn't the legal definition of poverty, but you're still in the position where the tiniest thing going wrong can mean that you become homeless. My understanding is that many military families are so poor that they qualify for food stamps.)
     
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    Min wage in the uk is £7.25/hr (for 21 yo and over) that's about $9 - the cost of living is higher here though - especially fuel and rents

    There are still a lot of ways for poor people to get screwed by their employer , mostly around zero hours contracts or being made to work 'self employed'
     
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    But--just to exercise one of my pet peeves about the US, not as a debate against you--a poor person in the UK who gets sick or injured won't, I believe, incur debts equal to a year's income (or far more) in one short hospital visit.
     
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    Only JSA/ESA. Most benefits aren't about unemployment - housing benefit, working tax credits, etc.
     
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    this is true - the NHS is far from perfect, but i wouldn't change it for the american system
     
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    also true - I was thinking that welfare equated to JSA or disability benefit ...
     
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    Nah, I assume they'd kill themselves so that other people could receive their organs.
     
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    Wouldn't they do as much as possible in the time that they have and then donate their organs after they've lived a life of good humanitarian work? ;)
     
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    Well, you better hope the moves to impeach Trump don't succeed, because guess what. Vice President Mike Pence advocates electrocuting gay people to make them 'go straight.' And he's next in line, if Trump goes.
     
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    I think it equates to benefits in general but I don't know. Muricans, help?
     
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    that was kind of what gave me the idea for TDS - well Wreys blog about his fears for that happening - I'm straight and in the UK so i'm not worried personally, but its fucking reprehensible for a civilized country to even contemplate that sort of shit
     
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    Well, old organs aren't exactly prime candidates for transplant.
     
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    I don't believe he could do that, even if he wanted too.
    Firstly it is against the law. And secondly they lack
    the manpower and resources to do such a thing,
    Though it would be a huge wast of time for him
    if he could, cause you can't just zap someone into
    being something they are not. Also I would like to
    think our allies would step in and kick his homophobic
    ass, for acts that are surmountable to war-crimes.
    Pretty sure actively torturing ones own civilians
    would get someones attention, and actions taken
    to put a stop to it.

    Sounds like this Mike Pence guy is a Nazi enthusiast,
    with thoughts like this. Whats next, forcing them to
    wear triangles? Gonna have to watch this guy.
     
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    Conversion therapy basically involves giving electric shocks to the genitals whilst showing homosexual images, followed by giving a reward when showing heterosexual images (the reward element varies, it can range from pleasure stimulation through to forcing them to masturbate)... in theory they reprogram the brain ... in practice its bollocks , at most people learn to pretend to stop the pain.

    On the 'it's illegal front' every dictator from Julius Caesar to Hitler has used the 'emergency powers' loop hole - in this case if someone assassinated Trump, Pence might need emergency powers to deal with the crisis... those emergency powers tend to lead to silencing dissenting voices in the name of national security, then the blaming of the nations ills on social undesirables.

    This is essential the back drop to my new WIP - although because i'd rather not get sued for libel the "Reichstag fire" incident was the "whitehouse bombing" which took out the entire leadership and allowed a new (entirely fictional) right wing party to come to power who then followed the above route.
     
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