I think @Link the Writer is a genius of a caliber rarely seen in this world for coming up with such a devious plan, and I'll be basing my life on his teachings from now on.
They're being a bit harsh, but they have a point Link. You're not hurting that guy by lying to him. All you've really done is slightly skew his self image, and that's only if he believed you. Confronting a Boss isn't an easy thing to do. Most of options are bad ones that end in a loss. There's no shame in that. But the worst loss would be lying to yourself about the outcome, it hinders personal growth.
D: Oh. So perhaps the best course of action for me now is to just move on since he's not around anymore. Stop living in the past and live for the future and all that good stuff.
Maybe? I dunno. I might talk a good game, but mentally I'm a disaster. Sounds like you have a decent plan though. Good luck with it.
And in truth, I think I'm too kindhearted to nurse grudges and become vindictive over it. Even if mentally I like to say I'm a vindictive old bastard.
@Link the Writer I was not trying to be mean, I was playing, and I apologize if it came across as harsh.
Honestly, I'd say that doing an even better job with your new boss than you did with them would be a great way to show spite. In my last branch, the manager, let's call him X, before the current one voiced that he didn't think I had the attitude to be a supervisor. He put someone else's name, let's call him y, down for the course as well. Three months ago, a different manager came in, he put me on the course, I studied from the tills (something y avoids like the plague) and in my own time, we got the official materials at the same time. Now I'm being tried out as a supervisor while y is still in the warehouse.
only if hes not so stupid or self absorbed that he doesnt take it at face value.... personally i'd say the greatest cruelty would be to kick him in the nuts then stamp on them whilst hes on the floor before filling his car with paint and seducing his wife
actually the best revenge is to apply for and get his job then message him on a regular basis about all the changes you are making , thanking him for training you up to be the man who can really give this team the leadership they deserve
Not been there myself , 2 employers ago I did the (female boss) 9 ways to Saturday while we were on a conference..
She's old enough to have remembered Truman/Dwight Eisenhower as the US president. @big soft moose -- PERFECT!!
Yeah, me neither. Or anyone else's wife for that matter. Still though, I would think being Eskimo cousins with your boss would be hilarious. The insults also would be epic. Or the idea that your boss can't forget about you when he goes home. And I've always wanted to tell someone that their wife tastes like honeynut cheerios, like Kevin Garnett did to Carmelo Anthony (allegedly).
So I manage to snip off an oncoming anxiety episode just now. Apparently it was about to give me one of those "Oooh, what if your mom/dad is dying of a slow, painful cancer. What you gonna do then? Bet you're gonna drink? You're all alone with no friends" thoughts that I get every now and then. What I did was think, "I've got my online friends, my dogs, and the people at work. Not to mention the fictional characters in my head that I am, or will eventually begin, putting in stories. What do you have? Nothing. Not a damn thing. It is YOU that are alone, not me."
Those ones are the easiest to seduce. She probably hasn't had her gutters cleaned since the Falklands.