Sexy is wearing an outfit to excite. Kinky is the evolution of combining implements associated (or not) to use with said outfit. (Pain is optional, but lube may be required). But you can start with a feather, and work your way up to a feather duster.
Hmm. Hadn't thought about this beyond the chicken/feather comparison. I'd say the difference is how far "kinky" diverges from the things commonly called "erotic" by your average reader (whoever that might be). A bikini-clad woman would commonly be accepted as erotic. If the bikini is made of bacon, that might cross the line into kinky. A suggestive dance in a brothel might be erotic; the same dance in a convent might be kinky.
I see. So how about natural sexy without to go the extra length? Does that count all? haha. Pain I am not sure about.
Both can coexist if you are into kinky stuff. If not that maybe a simple gestured of the tongue swimming on the lips is enough to be sexy.
Well yes, demeanor and how one carries oneself can be sexy, in a natural way. Though it has to be organic, and not put on for it to work.
To the older generation 'kinky' has connotations and associations of otherness. 'Kinky boots' maybe changed things a little ( a song in '69 [?]). Kinky might be the guy who watches from a wardrobe or even darker innuendo. I think so. Sexy is obviously enormous plastic breasts.
Kinky darkness?? I never thought of that. Plastic surgery and sexy? LOL it does take an enormous effort and dedication to go through the knife. I am after the idea of sexy being easy and effortless. Does that count for anything? haha
So, that would fall into kinky? Two women give eyes, then blow off a man's face with a revolver. shut up... goes looking for 'sexy walking,' youtube
This defined 'kinky' when I was about 12 yrs old, scene1, 1o seconds in. ANd this as 'sexy' aged 40ish plus 8, old favourite
If you LIKE it, it's cute, fun, and sexy. If you don't care one way, or the other, but your significant other DOES like it, it's kinky. If you don't care for it at all, it's a perversion.
Sexy - arousing, attractive, amorous Kinky - makes you consider. "Fur thong? ...but wouldn't that be redun... ooh, kinky! The toupe' for the pousie'?" Sensuality. The sensual touch. A long, slow caress... anywhere, for it's own sake. That can be kinky and sexy!
I wouldn't be brave enough to even go looking for that, but I hope you enjoyed the search. The besmearch.
