I don't mean "When did you decide to become a writer?" I'm looking instead for the moment when the realisation dawned that you were a real, bona fide, writer. Was it with the first story you wrote, or with the first completed book, or the first time published? I know that it is common wisdom that if you write you are a writer, but I have written a play and a book and working on another, yet I really don't feel like a writer yet. Is this common?