In my new novel my main character is loving the life she has worked very hard to create for herself. She's a survivor of childhood emotional and sexual abuse. I need to use flashbacks and memories to tell the story of how she got to where she is from there. Basically she's seeing how far she's come and how she got there, while also showing how she's making every dream she ever dreamed as child come true. So how would I use flashbacks and memories to accomplish that? I'm beginning the story in her present, where she is whole and healed and loving her life.