But this is seriously bothering me. And I need some advice. I have a son names Alexander Jerome. He does not have his father's last name, due to the lack of commitment during my pregnancy. He was an oops baby, so I decided to let a close family member who is stable in their life adopt him. I'd still be his mother, he'd know about me, I could see him whenever, etc. His father doesn't want that, took me to court for it. My aunt makes $86/hr part time for the government, owns her house, and has been married for six years. His father makes $7.25/hr(minimum wage) at McDonalds, living with his parents and is in a relationship with a very well known girl, if you catch my drift. This girl is completely delirious, thinks she's his mother, and is publicly stating that his name is Alexander KAIGE, not Jerome. She has been posting nasty messages about me on her profile, and even made a FB page against me. The judge still hasn't decided on custody, but I just wanted some advice. Am I out of line when I say this girl is crazy?