So I've known my bestfriend Ken for about 8 years. Basically since my childhood. We grew up together going to school, and we'd always hang out regularly. After entering High School, we started to drift apart and started to stay in contact less and less. So now, it's 2012. I barely see Ken, he barely talks to me. He never invites me to hang out. He doesn't even make any efforts to find out how I'm doing. Overall, he doesn't seem to value our friendship at all. I feel like I have invested so much of myself into the friendship with him, and he doesn't even want to acknowledge all of my efforts. I always ask him to hang out. I always try and make plans with him. I always try to inquire about his problems and I do so much and he simply doesn't seem to care at all. I don't even know why I bother anymore. Earlier in 2012, I got into an argument about him. I confronted him and told him I didn't like how he was treating me, and in the process, HE got mad and decided to stop being my friend. So he basically ignored me for 3 months and never bothered to apologize or even contact me. And this is for something that was entirely his fault. I had to beg for him to take me back as a friend. Can you guys believe I had to resort to such desperate measures? I have never been able to depend on him for anything. He honestly doesn't seem to take our friendship seriously at all. Why does he possess such a mentality? Why am I the only one that values our friendship? Why am I the one getting stepped on? I am a good genuine person and yet he doesn't seem to see that. I don't know how to else to prove it to him. I feel physically sick to my stomach because I can't figure out how to get through to him. Is it simply a lost cause? I'm so mad at him, I'm so mad at myself. I shouldn't deserve this type of treatment, yet I still remain friends with him because I have nobody else. So what should I do about this guys? How should I approach this situation? Should I just end the friendship entirely? I don't see the point in trying anymore honestly.. I feel like I've done enough. I just can't make plans with him, I can't see him, so why even bother.. Thanks guys.