Meanest vs. Nicest

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  1. CDRW

    CDRW Contributor Contributor

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    Hmm. I'm also one of the ones who does a ctrl, alt, del, on the past, unfortunately it applies to the good things as well as the bad, so here goes.

    Meanest: "I'm going to heaven and you're not." Said by a middle aged born-again christian woman on the street.

    Nicest: "My daughters would kill me if they knew I told you, but they said you look like a hot Napoleon Dynamite." Said by a woman in my checkout line at wal-mart.
     
  2. SonnehLee

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    Okay. First. People like that are stupid.


    and second, I. Want. A. Picture.
     
  3. Carmina

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    Meanest: "No one likes you. Why don't you just kill yourself?" From a classmate in 8th grade

    I have a lot of super nice things...harder to pick one. Ooh...I had on this morning...
    Nicest: "You are a muse"

    Weirdest: "You have a body like one of the statues of Aphrodite that men would make pilgrimages to masterbate to."
     
  4. CDRW

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    You know, I have the perfect picture of me standing next to a Napoleon Dynamite calender, but I'm not sure if I saved the file. I'll have to go and check my cd's.
     
  5. Lavarian

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    :eek:
    Restraining. Order.
     
  6. tarnished

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    Meanest (from mum)

    im leaving. Maybe if you were a better person i'd stay.

    Nicest (from girlfriend) Theres no one else I;d rather be with, and I think its amazing that two people who are meant for each other actually found each other,
     
  7. Henry The Purple

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    What a cruel little brat!

    Wow, some people really know how to insult others. :eek:

    What an abusive asshole. *hugs*

    Meanest: ''The only thing I regret is that you were ever born'' from my dear father. People have said worse, but this was the cruelest, given the context...

    Kindest: ''I have so much respect for you, and I can say that about so few people'' from my sister. I tend to remember all the times people tell me they love me too. ;)
     
  8. hiddennovelist

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    Have an excuse for treating someone like that still doesn't make it ok...just saying.

    Wrey, I love you.

    And I'm writing that down.

    In regards to the meanest one...people with that attitude are a large part of the reason I no longer belong to an organized religion.

    As for the nicest, that is one of the greatest compliments I have ever heard.

    That is the other greatest compliment I have ever heard.
     
  9. Mercurial

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    I'm writing it down, too.

    Wreybies: Life Coach. :)

    As for Carmina's... Hidden, if you mean great to be a synonym to be monumental and creepy... Yes. :D It's a compliment (I think), but it's not really a compliment I'd be keen on receiving. :eek:
     
  10. hiddennovelist

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    I think I mean great as in very unique. Had I received that compliment, I might not have been so taken with it, though.
     
  11. A2theDre

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    Don't you mean shift+delete?

    I tend to laugh on the inside whenever a person tries to bring me down. As soon as someone tries to do that, I just know that my life is so much better than theirs. It's really not worth getting worked up over!

    Also, it's a bit of a recurring theme on this website for ladies having abusive (mentally and/or physically) partners. I seriously cannot think of anything that would make me say anything near as horrible as some of the things posted here!!!
     
  12. diamonds overun

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    Meanest: If I knew he was abusing your sister too I would have done something about it.
    My dad told me that when I was 19

    Nicest: people like you cause your nice.
    The most popular boy at high school, who I thought didn’t know I existed
     
  13. BadPenny

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    Meanest: "You will always be alone because you will never really love anyone. You don't know how, and you're too messed up to learn." (Of course: an x boyfriend)

    Nicest:"I choose you." (my husband)
     
  14. Gone Wishing

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    I may have to amend my "nicest". o_O

    Yesterday, during a conversation with a fellow writer-friend, he spoke about creativity, inspiration etc... and said: just being with you I feel things (i.e. creativity) sparking.

    :-D
     
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    Nicest: "You are the kind of man I wish I had married."
     
  16. Lavarian

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    Shh! I thought you swore you'd never tell anyone I told you that. :(
     
  17. Eoz Eanj

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    Nicest: "You're my favourite" - Close friend
     
  18. burned_out

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    Nicest : "You are my precious, precious piece of the world & I never want to let you go" - from my current boyfriend.

    Meanest: "You're going to be exactly like your mother you selfish little b!tch. I hope you end up on the streets, overdosed & pregnant with some forty year old man's child." - a few days ago, by an ex who also beat me up often.

    My mother is....well....a piece. I won't say any more.
     
  19. Lydia

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    That is SO mean!!! Really... how can anyone say something like that! I hope you smacked him in the face or something like that!
     
  20. Ashleigh

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    Recent coolest thing - 'It's true, Ash! Ask ANYONE in this school to say one thing about you, and they all say the same thing - 'She barely comes in but gets really good grades, I dont know how she does it' ' - Close friend, Lisa. :D
     
  21. burned_out

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    It actually didn't hurt at all...I knew what he was trying to accomplish, and I wouldn't let that happen.

    But I did report him to the police for harassing me :)

     
  22. Cogito

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    Best response. Suppress a giggle, then break out into laughter as you walk away. And never explain why you are laughing.

    It would shatter him, or at least tickle his paranoia.
     
  23. hiddennovelist

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    If only I'd had you to advise me when I was breaking up with my last boyfriend...
     
  24. Torana

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    One of the worst things a family member has ever said to me, was my sister. She told me that I should terminate my pregnancy, because having a child will ruin my life and if I kept it, I was a fool and throwing my life away just like she had done.
    It really broke my heart as I just wanted my family to be happy for me. As far as I am concerned, children don't ruin your life, the only one that can ruin your life is you!

    The other meanest things I have had said to me were:
    My ex (kids father)- To terminate the pregnancies, both times. He said he didn't want kids for the same reason my sister said to terminate them.

    The worst thing of all that I feel has ever been said to me though:

    I wish we never had the kids, they are cute and all that, and at times it is really great being a father, but... our lives are ruined. We can't go anywhere because we have kids, we can't visit our (his) friends because we have kids, we can't go fishing because we have kids, we can't afford to get my drugs each week because we have kids. Our lives are on hold and honestly, life really would be so much easier and better if they had never of been born. YOu really should have terminated them both when I told you to. - as you can plainly tell, my kids biological father... at least now they have a father who loves them as though they were his own.

    I have never forgiven the man for what he said and I honestly hope that my two little angels never find out. No child deserves to be told that one of their parents wished they were never born...
     
  25. hiddennovelist

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    That is so sad. I hate people who look at kids that way...

    And I'm glad you didn't listen to them, Tor. Your kids obviously make you very happy!
     

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