I'm having a small crisis because I just realized I may be a huge hypocrite. Let me explain. In last week's episode of Game of Thrones, we got to see a naked Jon Snow. Not full frontal or anything. Just a little butt crack and side-body action. Well Buzzfeed posted an article about it. "We Need To Talk About Jon Snow's Butt," were the exact words. At first, I just smiled and thought, "Haha, yeah... Jon's butt....." It wasn't until I looked at some of the comments that I realized, wait.... should I be laughing at this? So I'm at a place I'm unfamiliar with. Feeling that I objectified someone. But at the same time feeling that I didn't. I would never in a million years want to treat someone as an object. I've got in many fights with men who do that to women. So I would never want to do it myself. But Kit Harington is an attractive man. Of course I'd like to see him naked! Is that really objectifying, or just finding someone attractive? Have I become the very person I regularly yell at? Which is what led me here. What's the difference? When does "finding someone attractive" cross the line into "objectifying?" What is appropriate and what is not? I used to think I knew. But now I'm not so sure. What do you think?