So... In the process of Nanowrimo, I'm now writing, at minimum, four stories with explicit sex scenes, and possibly soon five. The thing is, sex seems to creep into every story, as if it just comes out nowhere. Oddly, two of them are erotic horror, which is not exactly a common genre(yes, they do have genuine horror elements, or at least, theoretically.) Why does it matter? Well, as one can see with the title, damn these are hard scenes to write. I don't want to just skip over them, they're too important to the plot, and in the case of one of them, its become entirely about them. It'd be like removing all the fight scenes from a novel starring soldiers in war, and replacing it with terrible dialogue and teasing the reader with a promise the book never delivers on. Doesn't help that, for all I suck at writing them right now, they do take a lot of words, which is nice when you're trying to get words. Anyway, has anyone else found themselves just... stumbling into an erotic novel, if you will? Its awkward in my case because I just feel woefully unprepared to write them. Doesn't help my last attempt to write sex here seemed to show I was umm... not exactly stellar at it.