Oh I'm sorry Banzai but I am secretly, madly inlove with you and I can't deny it any longer lol (sorry had to do that)
Had to keep the crowd happy and let them have their way you know lol and it is the way that you....that you.....ummm.....that.....you......ermmm.....ummm.....the way.....that you......heck......ummm......yeah! anyways...moving right along now! Next poster please
"really close mates" I'd like to focus on the "close" part. We can have relationships at many levels from casual to life long mates. There is a point where "it" happens and some know where that point is and others don't have a clue. The people that go through divorces and love affairs don't know when they have crossed over or don't care. Folks that have committed long term relationships don't flirt with that point. They know when you get close (physically or emotionally) it gets warm, which leads to smoke, then fire, fire burns. It's a delicious trap. Yes I have female friends and acquaintances. Some I care for very much but I will not put myself in a position to approach what I feel is too much intimacy, closeness. That's saved for only one person. My wench.