I got into a debate at work with a woman who is getting married later in the year. She and her partner have decided that they should wait until they get married to have sex. This I understand, in the context of saving your virginity. However, she isn't a virgin and neither is he. So I can't get my head around why they feel the need to wait, especially when it is apparent from how she talks about things that it is making her deeply unhappy. It did get me thinking though about the pros & cons of waiting. For me they should get it on.