Morning all, I'm quite a private person, i'm not into gossiping, i believe if someone wants me to know something or feels something is important enough they will tell me. This is the rule i follow, unfortunately it is not universal and to some more sensitive people it can appear disinterested and make people feel distant. It also makes you look like you're hiding something, which is usually not the case/or with good reason (birthday gift etc) Obviously i wouldn't want anyone to feel this way, to be honest if someone asks me a question i will most likely answer but i don't offer information freely without prompting, and if people ask too many questions i get irritated quite quickly. This tends to extend to most if not all people, from family to authorities and my partner. It does cause problems sometimes but it's not something i can change, i can only ignore the irritation for so long. Does anyone here share that mentality? live with someone else that does?