The Happiness Thread

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  1. Mans

    Mans Contributor Contributor

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    I think my comment was interpreted mistakenly.
    what I expressed was based on a woman's love to her husband, not a slavary obligation.

    The humanity right of women is equal to men, but in some conditions the obligation of married couple to each other is a little different.

    for example a woman is free to work out of home as a worker, but working out of home or even inside is not the obligation of women; it is the certain obligation of a man to work and supply the requierments of his wife, among house, food, cloths, treatment, and other necessary things for living.

    although a woman can work optionally to help her husband and children but working for income is not the certain obligation of a married woman.

    Generally women have been simulated to flower that are fine and excellent and are not deserve to be a worker, neither inside home nor outside.
    In the religious book of imam Khomeini (the leader and originator of Islamic revolution and republic of Iran is this order :

    Man is not rightful to force his wife to work at home.

    it does mean a wife is not obligated to work at home as a servant forcedly and either she can do home works and care her children optionally because of love to her family, not obligatory
     
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  2. Carly Berg

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    A generous attitude makes a much nicer relationship/family imo.
     
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  3. mashers

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    I don't think anything should be done within any relationship out of obligation. People should do things for each other within relationships because the want to. If you're doing something for somebody because you feel obliged to do it, then perhaps you are not in the right relationship.
     
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    Naah, man. Just fuck of. People with your mind set makes me physically sick and I hope you'll never ever get near a woman in your life.

    Woman has the same rights and obligations to work inside and outside of the home. Men could be stay at home-husbands and not be obligated to work out of the home, if that works for the family in question.

    A woman shouldn't try to please the husbands like you say in your first post. Same goes for men. People should be comfortable with themselves and if their partner don't accept that they know where the door is.

    Best regards
    A woman working outside of the house providing her own housing, food and everything around there and will keep doing it once I get married
     
  5. Cave Troll

    Cave Troll It's Coffee O'clock everywhere. Contributor

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    Just Wow...

    I don't think I have seen anyone so openly attack another person's culture
    like this in a long time, and it really bugs me. :mad:

    Just because you don't keep up on current events in a country and culture outside
    your own, doesn't give you any right to throw stones at them for what you don't
    know or understand. In fact it doesn't even affect you, if you don't live there or share
    in that culture, so let it go.

    Respect everyone, unless they are an asshole. Then you have a place to put your boot. :p
     
  6. big soft moose

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    Iran and Sweden have different cultures, who knew … wheres the group hug emoji ?
     
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    KaTrian A foolish little beast. Contributor

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    Anyway... Can we not have a women's rights debate in the Happiness Thread? :) I know it's an important topic, but not really something to be tackled right here.

    Best regards
    Woman wielding the awesome power of the ban hammer.
     
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    693DDDB6-4363-45B3-B3D9-63246414B774.jpeg I’ll see your kitten, and raise you a semi psychotic puppy...
     
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    Women don't need men or need to cater to them for any reason.
     
  13. Wreybies

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    Oooooooooh, you all are so lucky that Kat got here before I did.

    Obey the Kat and drop the topic tout suite, lest there be two banhammars in play. I'd love nothing better than to act out an epic Marvel Films scene with Kat, both Mjölnir and Stormbreaker raining Asgardian destruction upon the land.

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  14. KaTrian

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    That'd be kinda awesome, though...
     
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    Boxers are the best.

    I mean, so are Rottweilers. And Australian Cattledogs. And Caucasian Ovcharkas. Et cetera.

    But Boxers are the best.
     
  16. Carly Berg

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    Getting ready to go out.
     
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    I confess that Mrs. A's Pomeranian won me over. I just thought of him as a noisy clumsy cat and we got along fine...
     
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    Staffordshire Bull Terriers for me.

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    And Golden Retrievers, West Highland Terriers.
     
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    YASSSSSS. Staffies are the only dog I will ever have :love:
     
  20. big soft moose

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    I tend to think of Kat as being more like the black widow as portrayed by Scarlett Johansen … that'd make you Tony stark. the man with all the technology and cool toys
     
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    No, no. Not for me. Kat, hailing from such northerly climes, is the embodiment of a Valkyrie, fierce, wild, a thunderstorm made human, a shieldmaiden sent to live among us, to guard us, though her true place is in Valhalla drinking Loki under the table and laughing louder than Odin himself. She takes Sleipnir out for a run across the Bifröst, Odin calling her back, she crying havoc into the wind. The Realms trembling at her passage.

    Such a warrior goddess is not to be accompanied by a mere mortal with gadgets. Nay. She merits someone as worthy as she is to wield a weapon of power. We engage the enemies of peace and order. Stars are born and die by our fists and hammer-strokes.

    But it's not like I'm sweat'n her or anything, because... you know... I'm down for dudes. :whistle: I just also like super-fierce baddass women to fight alongside. :superyesh:

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  22. big soft moose

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    I was going to say you are sounding remarkably straight tonight (until that last line)

    You want to watch that T trian doesn't show you the big knife that Finnish men use on men who hit on their wives...
     
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    Ironman is the pussy version of Batman. Besides Batman can bench 900 lbs without the aid of a mech suit. :p
     
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    I went to my first writer's group today!!!
    They have time where they read whatever they wrote and want to share, and originally I didn't really want to read anything because one I suddenly got the thought that my stuff wasn't good compared to what they were reading, and two I have a hard time reading stuff in front of a crowd, but I did it. I read an excerpt from my manuscript. They said they liked it and it was good and well written!!!
    I'm proud of myself for finally going.
     
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