Ok yes I have real life sexual experience, but I'm not sure how to write this in a novel in a way it can still be tasteful, and have true emotional impact. You see, in my story is a 16 year old girl, her first boyfriend is 18, and they fool around in his living room, though they almost have full on intercourse. This is important because it's really supposed to represent her loss of innocence, and her solution for her insecurities. The boy is your stereotypical handsome, charming, false loving teenage boy. The girl finds comfort in him since he is one of the only significant male figures in her life, however, she's only been dating the boy for a short period of time. So the boy performs oral sex on her, touches her, and she receives her first orgasm, Is this too much? How can I write this in an appropriate way, and how about an actual sexual intercourse scene? By the way, I am a new member to this site, and I apologize for any awkwardness.