I've got this huge problem right now. My character has an erotic experience. But... I've got a problem. Many, actually. First off, the book is set in first person. I have no idea what it's like to be a male in that situation. Secondly, I'm a virgin, so I don't know what it's like in that situation in general. Finally, I don't know if I'll be able to write a convincing scene because I'm asexual. I just don't know what it's like to have that kind of connection. It's like asking a straight man to write an intense homosexual scene with two females. It doesn't sound right. I keep trying to write this scene, but it doesn't sound real enough. I know I'm going to get a lot of answers saying: You don't know if you don't try it. But I'm 16 and it's not like I'm going to grab a random guy of the street in the name of 'research'. I'm not going into pornographic detail, but I've still got the kissing and caressing to write. Do any of you guys ever have this problem? How do you write about something you don't know anything about?