I feel so horrible when I listen to Jordan Peterson telling his students that they are capable of reaching their goals because if they weren't they wouldn't be in university. I'm not in Uni, never been close to even being considered for it. I'm jealous that his reassurance isn't placed on me.
The voice that keeps playing in my head is saying "You're not the people he's speaking about, you haven't worked hard ever. You're the type of person he talks about when informing people of the chaos to avoid"
I sag into my chair and just stare into nothingness while the voice continues droning on. The realization dawns on me that I will always be a step below the average joe. My ego takes from that thought to mean I should stop trying, my fates been sealed. If I can't be above people in status then I'm a nobody. How noble.
I struggle with social anxiety, and it's been a fair amount of time since I quit my last job. I keep making excuses for myself, the scenario is never perfect enough for me to take action. I get intensely motivated and then crash into the ground hard. Despite what people say about failure, I find it of little use. I don't learn from it important lessons, instead I learn of my inability to live a life of worth to society. I've always been a failure, at school, at work. I'm the guy who drops the product on the floor, who miscounts and has to make everyone recount because of my mistake. The guy people have to watch over because they're worried I'll fuck things up.
I try so hard to try and persuade myself that I'm capable, but I've never been able to actually perform in such a manner. The things I'm "good" at I'm mediocre at best. I've played guitar for so long, but can barely play anything correctly or fully. Writing is one of the subjects I was able to perform at a college level with a decent grade, and I'm still mediocre at best. I don't even know how to structure this fucking rant. I'm guessing where each period and ever paragraph should be placed or end.
The more I reflect on myself the less hope I feel. I could cherry pick some quality about myself that I think is good, but they've never been put to the test. I say I wouldn't bully people, but I was never popular enough to really know for sure. I say I would defend others with my life, but I can't know for sure. My arrogant mental construction of myself is some holly wood movie star. A ranger riding into town, stoic and uncompromising to the rule of law. What a pathetic joke.
Maybe this blog and my rantings will cause some change in my thinking. Maybe putting these feelings into words will help alleviate the symptoms. But so far, there's been little progress. God speed.
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