Welcome! Here we all struggle, so it is a good place to come to. I think one of my favorite things about this community--unlike many others I have tried--is that for the most part, everyone on the site is here to help make you better, not just criticize your shortcomings.
Greetings, PatsyJill! I'm a newbie here myself but in the last two hours browsing through the posts I got the feeling that this is a great place with great people. No "Visit my website and buy this wonderful advisor book!"-junk but real humans looking for feedback and giving some of it.