The not happy thread

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  1. BG_Hambone

    BG_Hambone New Member

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    I'll Be your valentine, If you'll have me.:redface:



    on topic though: Im upset about my life in general....its just too much to throw into a single post. so, I'll blame my mood on the fact that it's technically Valentines Day, and I'm alone, as usual.
     
  2. Xeno

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    Still haven't heard from Kim. She hasn't come online at all and I don't have her phone number. :(
     
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    No valentine here, as usual. :(
    I'm really down these days about a number of things so I hardly registered that one.
     
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    I am not happy because today is a day I despise. Blech.
     
  5. Evil Ferret of Randomness

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    If it makes anyone feel better, you SHOULDN'T celebrate Valentine's Day, anyways! You're celebrating the killing of Priests!
    ...
    To that note, Atheists shouldn't celebrate ANY holiday other than things like President's Day...
     
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    wow...not a whole lotta love going around on valentines day....
     
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    Haha sounds good ;)
     
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    Don't feel bads, Yellow. I'm going to spend my Valentine's day interviewing people of a different religion for one of my classes at school. :rolleyes: Wish I could spend it at the stables with my horse. =/
     
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    My Valentines day will be monday when my baby meets me off the train! :D
     
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    I'm not very happy 'cause my buzz got killed and I just fell out a little bit with a friend, but I'm sorry for anything I said and I hope they start talking to me again...
     
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    I spent my Valentine's Day in meetings all day. :rolleyes: One after another, after another,after another, after another... I suppose I was in good company, but it wasnt exactly romantic, ha ha.

    I suppose it's better that I was in meetings all day. After I left work about an hour and a half ago, I attempted to phone my boyfriend, who I'm sort of on the rocks with. He's out of town right now (he always is; you get used to it after a while), so we didnt have any plans, but I thought he'd at least pick up his mobile so we could, you know, talk with each other for a little while, but he didnt answer. What a f&$#ing surprise.

    I'm so frustrated. It's like I might as well consider myself single. :(
     
  12. Evil Ferret of Randomness

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    Don't do that! Guys can be very, very emotional when not with others... And by emotional, I mean a Hell of a lot more emotional then girls (Than girls let on, at least). If y'all have been on the 'rocks' lately, he might just be really upset. The best thing I can suggest is, when you do talk to him again, try and sort the problem that has been keepin' y'all on the rocks out.
    Solutions are, often times, simple when one puts on the others shoes... So... Yea...
    Also, his phone might not have been near him at the time. Wait. He might call back. :-D
    AND REMEMBER! Keep a positive mind set!
    o_O
    No matter ho stupid positivity may be, it has its uses. >_>
     
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    Listen to the Ferret! (I never thought I would ever say that sentence...)
     
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    My mother has to check my work and just a few minutes I'll be done with my last subject. But it will take her forever to check my work.
    And I want to be free and play video games and watch the telly.
     
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    YES! Listen to the Ferret! They're intelligent like that! XD
     
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    Thanks :)
    at least I got to go skiing today, and we're going to see an awesome movie in a couple hours, also very good
    but right now valentine's day is making me depressed....
     
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    Valentine's Day ALWAYS makes me depressed >_>
     
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    Especially depressing this year. My "valentine" is otherwise occupied/we aren't really getting along in the first place.
     
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    Ugh... Valentines Day...

    I got an unwholesome proposition, a "what's wrong with you?" and a "happy valentine's day darling" issued dismissively after "well, I'm going now" (all from different people, and I don't know if that makes it better or worse :/).

    I like Valentine's Day in the traditional sense, when it was about confessing a secret love or crush to someone. Don't much like what it's become these days, though. (Despite that, I still can't help but be disappointed one person in particular was so dismissive, which re-enforces my dislike of Valentine's Day - I don't like separating a day from the rest and, no matter how I try not to, having hopes/expectations that fizzle out due to disregard - even when it's mine. Sound a little ridiculous when I put it like that o_O)
     
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    It doesn't sound ridiculous, though. Everyone hopes that someone will at least admit liking them on a crap-worth day like Valentine's, and when that special-someone doesn't become that special someone, as usually happens, we get emo and begin to hate Valentine's... Yet, still manage to regain hope for the next year. >_>
     
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    V-Day: Meh
     
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    Heh; yes, for once, I'll listen to a ferret. :D (Xeno, you're right; I dont think I've ever used those words in that particular order ever before!) I suppose your right, and thanks for the consoling. I guess once I pull my head out of self-absorbed MercurialLand, I do know that he's hurting --just like I am, in ways that have nothing to do with each other. We're both under a lot of negative stress right now. I wish I could do more for him, but he's so far away so often physically and quite distant emotionally; I dont know how to help him. I guess I'll just have to corner him when he comes home again. And figure stuff out. Otherwise... I just dont know. :confused:

    But I'm made a ME-Monster out of this thread. --Let's not talk about Mercurial anymore; she talks enough about herself as it is. :rolleyes:

    Thank you, Ferret. It didnt change anything or alleviate any of my problems, but it sure made me feel better. *tacklehug*

    You know what, though. I've noticed on this thread that almost everyone here hates Valentine's Day. --Either that or we singles / emotionally crushed victims are wayyyy more vocal than the happy celebratory folks. (I suppose that makes sense; they're out celebrating. Duh.) --I say we do away with it all together!

    On the brightside, I found that top I've been looking for forever, and it fits. --It didnt previously. :)
     
  23. Evil Ferret of Randomness

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    I just got glomped! YAY!
    I hate to say it, because this is a family site an' all, but you could just have make-up sex with 'im. He's a guy; that'll DEFINITELY help! LOL
    JK!
    Still, cornerin' him sounds like a plan.

    People who use the social internet sites a lot, such as me, tend to be either socially awkward or anti-social. So, they tend to suffer a lot of stress from social things, such as dating. So they also tend to hate Valentine's Day.
     
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    I heard somewhere that real writers drink and stay up late by themselves.
     
  25. Gone Wishing

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    lol, I was having a rare, public 'woe is me' moment. :p

    I don't actually hate Valentine's Day, I just dislike the way I occasionally react to it (which is often contradictory). If nothing else, chocolate in heart-shaped boxes is much cheaper the day after - which is cause for celebration, as is finding long-lost items. Woot! \o/

    Also true.
     
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