The Not Happy Thread

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  1. Link the Writer

    Link the Writer Flipping Out For A Good Story. Contributor

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    Well, assuming your home is also in New Zealand, you can just drive there, no? :]
     
  2. dizzyspell

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    Wrong island, which is a pain. This island never seems to snow. :(
     
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  3. Jayyy1014

    Jayyy1014 Jerrica Contributor

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    I'm sorry dizzy spell, If I could I would send you all of my snow whenever winter rolls around.. Lord knows I get enough of it..
    And art all I have to say is lmao... :p
     
  4. hiddennovelist

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    I either pulled some muscles or pulled a tendon in my neck. :( No scrimmaging for me tonight.
     
  5. Baywriter

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    Dear men,

    Please stop being so damn oblivious to how you're making me feel, especially you men who actually have a brain! I know you're intelligent. Come on... You have to know that you're just rubbing it in my face, right? You know that I'm crazy about you, yes? Doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out that maybe I'd rather not know who you're with or what you're doing or whatever, especially since you already know it's not going to last anyway. (Why be there in the first place? But I guess that's a whole other rant.) Ugh. I just hate feeling so wonderful for a while and then continually being smacked in the face. So do me a favor. Either care or don't care.

    That girl in the back of the line

    P.S. Will probably withdraw my rant tomorrow. Just upset right now.
     
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  6. Heather

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    I am so pissed off right now. My granddad put some money away for me when I was younger, which I decided to cash in for this summer, so that I would actually have money to do things/put half of it in my savings for Kilimonjaro. Well, three weeks later there's still no money, I phone up and they let me know the cheque has been lost in the post. Ok, fair enough, that's not there fault. What's pissed me off is that they couldn't sort it out there and then for me (cancel the first cheque, send a new one). No, I have to write to them explaining whats happened, wait for them to get that through the post (because they don't have Email), wait for it to process, and then for them to re-send the cheque.

    I'm livid - it'll be the end of summer before I even get the money, and me and my boyfriend had made plans to go on a last minute weekend away. Can't do that with only £14 in my bank account and no job :mad:


    And I'm sorry that you're feeling so shitty Bay, I hope you feel better tomorrow after you've slept on it :(
     
  7. Jayyy1014

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    15 minutes till I make my way down to the high school.. To get my sophomore schedule.. I'm very nervous because I flunked spanish (badly) and mom doesnt know yet and shes getting ready to find out once I bring the schedule back to her workk...Grades are very strict in my family.. ANd I've never made under a c let alone flunked a class...So I'm really scared... Wish me luck?
     
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    Guys are very stupid Bay. I'm here to listen and talk to If you need it. I'm only a message away...
     
  9. Heather

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    Oh god, good luck! My dad is really uptight about grades, and was always on my sister's back about 'achieving as high as your sister'. I hope your mam doesn't take it too badly.
     
  10. Lydia

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    Aw, that sucks. I'm glad my parents aren't that way. My dad's just like "All I want is that you do your best, and if you fail, you just do it again till you get it right."

    But yeah, I hope your mom won't be too mad, good luck!
     
  11. Lemex

    Lemex That's Lord Lemex to you. Contributor

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    Gee. Thanks. Well girls have cooties, so there.


    I'm unhappy. Due to this recent operation on my food I've had very little sleep and it's really starting to affect me. The pain is getting slightly worse, and it's keeping me awake.

    I Want Sleep!
     
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  12. Jayyy1014

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    :) well mom won't have to find out about it for this year at least.. Cause IT isn't on my schedule! YIPEE! MY schedule consists of
    1st period.)Geometry
    2nd. period) Word Civilization
    3rd. period) HEalth and the last smeester it will be p.e
    4th period) BAND! YIPEE
    5th period) biology..YUCK
    6th period) English 2 :D
    7th period BRAKE AND SYSTEMS! (IMMA BE A MECHANIC GIRL) WOOT WOot
     
  13. Lydia

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    Hehe, good.

    As for my unhappy, it's just a little thing, but... trying to record a song that requires some loud parts- I kinda have to yell them, and me and yelling don't really go together. So yeah, just difficult. Sniff. :rolleyes:
     
  14. art

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    It's astonishing to me that you're able to soldier on through these terribly difficult times..Hang in there kid!:)

    Jayy - When you have to break the news there's a happy trick that has been used by teenage girls for decades..

    Jayy: Mom, I'm pregnant.
    Mom: various naughty words

    allow a few minutes to pass

    Jayy: Oh sorry, when I say pregnant I mean I flunked my Spanish test
    Mom: Thank f various naughty words

    Puts it into perspective you see.
     
  15. Lydia

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    Oh I know! I find myself so incredibly... strong, I suppose.
     
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    Someone in my apartment complex stole my cell phone. I'm pretty pissed.
     
  17. art

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    Oh dear, that is very annoying. :( Not much consolation but at some point in the coming weeks your phone difficulties will be a perfect excuse for you not having contacted some tiresome acquaintance or in-law...A ' Yeah sorry, my phone was nicked and I didn't know your number' type deal.
     
  18. hiddennovelist

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    I actually already got to use that. ;) We're flying down to visit my mother-in-law tonight, and she texted me, but I haven't answered yet because my phone is still 'lost'.

    I'm fortunate to at least have my old phone to use for right now, but it really pisses me off that people don't do the right thing. Hopefully whoever stole it gets some delicious karma in return.
     
  19. Mercurial

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    Wow, Hidden! That's miserable! :( I'm sorry to hear that; that's just not right.
     
  20. hiddennovelist

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    ^Right? I can't imagine finding someone's phone and just pocketing it instead of trying to find a way to get it back to the owner...I called my cell company, though, and they said if the person brings it into a store to try and get it activated, it'll show up that it was lost/stolen, and there's a chance I might be able to get it back. Hopefully that happens!
     
  21. Jayyy1014

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    I'm sorry! I didn't mean you.. Every guy that is not on this forum is stupid. :) Better?

    Yeah that'd be nice if it worked like that but...
    1.) It was the WHOLE spanish CLASS I flunked..
    2.) She doesn't trust me to begin with..(For some reason Idk. Everytime she's asked a straight answer, I'd always told her the truth.)
    3.) I haven't been ANYWHERE this whole summer..
     
  22. Cogito

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    Hidden, depending on the type of phone and the carrier, if you contact your service provider, they may be able to track it. thiefAt the least, they can disable it so they cannot run up charges or use the phone for illegal purposes.
     
  23. SteamWolf

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    Not happy my posts are deleted with no explanation as to why...
     
  24. dizzyspell

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    My little brother is going through a really hard time at the moment. He's seeing a counsellor at school, but it seems to be doing f*ck all.

    At home there are earthquakes, our parents are splitting up, and he's having problems at school.

    So he's been staying with me at the moment, and he's really depressed. He's saying things like he wishes that he was never born, and that he wants to be dead, he wished he'd died at birth.

    He's TEN FREAKING YEARS OLD. I don't know how to deal with this.
     
  25. Trish

    Trish Damned if I do and damned if I don't Contributor

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    I'm sorry, Dizzy. That's a lot for you to deal with. Is there anything he's interested in? Art? Music? Writing? Sports? Anything that might help pull him out of it that he can get into? Sometimes all it takes is a glimmer. Beyond that I don't know what to say, other than to be there for him, to let him know he's loved, and to get help for yourself too if you can, because that's so much to be dealing with.

    My thoughts are with you.
     
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