The Not Happy Thread

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  1. Dante Dases

    Dante Dases Contributor Contributor

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    Thanks guys. She phoned me out of the blue this morning. Didn't see it coming. She feels she can't be in a relationship at the moment.
     
  2. Lydia

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    Ah, that sounds so familiar. I'm sorry you have to go through this.
     
  3. Cogito

    Cogito Former Mod, Retired Supporter Contributor

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    Respect her needs. Possibly she will decide otherwise later, possibly not. But if you respect her needs, she may be more inclined to see you as someone who won't make her feel trapped or constrained.

    Meanwhile, get whatever benefit YOU can from the time apart as well.
     
  4. Lemex

    Lemex That's Lord Lemex to you. Contributor

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    Heh. Add a cheating and that's what happened to me a few months ago. I guess what I'm trying to say very crudely is: don't be sad, someone else will have had it much worse. :)
     
  5. Eunoia

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    Agreed.
     
  6. Stupid-Face

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    Someone should send a video of the angry parrot saying "wtf" to warner bros. regarding the idea.

    I'm not too happy because I have literally no money to even eat or travel to see my family, Ahhhhh!!!
     
  7. Dante Dases

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    I'll be taking a break from the pursuit of love for a bit, I think! After five disasters in two years it's probably for the best if I take a step back for a month or two. So she has the room she wants (but not the hero she... Hang on, that's Batman...) and I have a chance to take stock and focus on other things. I also managed to take out frustrations playing for the Panthers tonight where, despite being ill all weekend and having not slept a wink, I managed to put in an energetic, physical performance - as one lad's shins will testify. Feeling much better now. Thanks, guys :)

    That's a pretty big not happy, Face. Is there food in the house, and how far away are they?
     
  8. JessWrite

    JessWrite Word Nerd & Proud! Contributor

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    I've never really had a phone because I didn't need one, but things have changed now. So, I drove with my dad to three phone companies. At each one I just smiled and nodded. Now, I'm furious! I *hate* when people don't tell you the full truth. Especially with money. Ugh, the real world. :mad:
     
  9. Banzai

    Banzai One-time Mod, but on the road to recovery Contributor

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    Another job interview, another rejection.

    *sigh*

    Back to the applications.
     
  10. Lemex

    Lemex That's Lord Lemex to you. Contributor

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    Well, keep trying and good luck next time!
     
  11. Eunoia

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    Wise choice. :)

    I know the feeling. Just keep trying and you'll be successful eventually. :)
     
  12. Cogito

    Cogito Former Mod, Retired Supporter Contributor

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    Damn. Well, hopefully the next one will be the golden opportunity worth all the disappointments.
     
  13. maidahl

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    I'm almost a year older :(
     
  14. Banzai

    Banzai One-time Mod, but on the road to recovery Contributor

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    Than what?
     
  15. Cogito

    Cogito Former Mod, Retired Supporter Contributor

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    There's only one way to not get older. I don't recommend it.
     
  16. maidahl

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    You're amazing
     
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    At least you can apply for a job. My parents won't even let me until I'm done school. Oh well, the life of a student.
     
  18. Ashleigh

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    I can't kid myself this is going to be fun any more. Two weeks camping with my parents is the worst fucking decision I could make. She's started already, and I'm gonna be alone. What is the point of a family? Like it means anything!
     
  19. Dante Dases

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    Saw that on Facebook, Ashleigh. Hang in there!
     
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    I JUST LOST TWO MORE GUYS!!! One of em they fired cuz his dad died and he didnt come back to work for like 2 weeks, but he cleared it with the office so i dont know why they did that. The other one is quitting because they are fu$%ing with his money, then i got two more that are about to quit soon as well... i swear shit is going to hell in a hand basket out here man...
     
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    Chin up mate! Things may turn themselves around! Stay positive! :)

    As for me, I've a broken finger and seen as my work requires the use of my hands - I'm out for a month. No work, no money unfortunately. :(

    Other than that, I still await the return of my darling dearest. Not having any money sucks though. :(
     
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    I only started college three days ago, and I already hate it. :(
     
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    Haha. That sucks. Really. It gets better? Myth for me. Hope it's not for you.
     
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    Haha thanks! I don't know, it might just be a case of the end of holiday blues but I had hoped it would be better.
     
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    What'd you expect?
     
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