UGH. She's conformed...

By Ashleigh · Jun 10, 2009 · 514 · 5
  1. Jessicka Fodera. (Jack off Jill - don't bother with her new band, their music is bland)

    Untill about 30 mins ago, I absolutely Idolised her looks. I loved her 'Big is beautiful' attitude and her cute plump face and big eyes. I thought she was amazing.

    She even referred to herself as a 'Zaftig Cherub and proud' - Zaftig meaning a pleasently plump woman and cherub of course meaning a chubby, rosey-cheeked angel. I thought that was so cool - I even called myself A Zaftig cherub a few times, even though I was nowhere near as big as her.

    Then, after people compared me to her in the pic thread, I was very pleased and felt very pretty, So I thought, 'Hey, I haven't look anything up on her new band in ages...'

    So I did, and what do I find?

    Some skinny SHELL of a woman with a very different nose.

    She looks horrible. Ugly.

    She's lost all her sexiness.

    She made ME feel good about myself. She made me believe that being a size 16 is gorgeous. She made me believe that SHE believed that too, but I was clearly wrong.

    I can't believe she's conformed. And she HAS conformed - she now dresses, weighs, and has surgey just like all the celebrities that she critiscized.

    She looks like any old girl now. It's not the weight so much but the falseness. She still promotes 'Big is beautiful' and yet she no longer represents that - she's bone thin now and her nose looks VERY much like it's had surgery, which sickens and saddens me.

    Ugh. I feel like my Idol's just betrayed me, and I can't believe I only just found out.

    This sucks.

    Oh- and the latest thing she did was appear on 'Germany's next top model' with Heidi Klum. What the heck has happened?!

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  1. Shadow Dragon
    Sadly this isn't uncommon. It seems to happen to most celebrities over time; they end up conforming to some type of image of what they're supposed to be. I'm sorry that she's let you down but you can still cherish what she used to be.
    Shadow Dragon, Jun 10, 2009
  2. Leaka
    Well it isn't that she just conformed.
    When you are an actor any kind of entertainment person.
    You'll end having to be placed as the image they want you to be.
    When you're in a hob like that.
    You're clay.
    They'll mold you and make you what they want to make you.
    You have no say.
    I mean you can fight it.
    You can for awhile.
    Maybe she still believes Big is Beautiful, but at the moment she's suppose to hold this image.
    Leaka, Jun 10, 2009
  3. Mercurial
    I have a sudden urge to belt out every word from the musical "Hairspray!" ... ;)

    In all seriousness, though, I dont hold it against her that she's decided to lose some weight (as long as it's at a healthy level; I havent googled any photos), but she probably shouldnt have been the self-proclaimed "Big Is Beautiful" spokeswoman if she was insecure about her own body. That's too bad... I guess if she lives in Hollywood, the pressure would get to her after a while. :( There's only so many, "I'm sorry, but we only carry those in sizes 1, 3, and 5" a girl can take.

    It's really an ego-crusher, and I'll tell ya --the bleach blonde, 6'2" and 94 pound bimboes who are always photographed?
    Yeah, they look BORING.

    All the same, it really infuriates me that beauty is most commonly associated with twigs today. If you are thin with no breasts and hips --you're "sexy." (No, you're not! You're underdeveloped and still look like a child!)

    But if you're, oh, I dont know --actually big enough to do what your body was designed to do (IE have hips wide enough to birth and boobs big enough that the baby can find it's target), you're somehow not as pretty.

    Curves are beautiful, people! WAKE UP.

    UGH.

    I'd better stop before I go on my temper-tantrum-tyrade. :mad:
    Mercurial, Jun 10, 2009
  4. Ashleigh
    It's just the fact that the band Jack Off Jill was dedicated to girl-riot music usually circling around girl power and fighting against the bimbo image.

    She was the one who said that she loved her weight and was happy with her image, but not only that, she thought that conforming to the mainstream image for publicity was disgusting and untrue to themselves. She was supposed to embody everything that was RIGHT about being yourself - she was against conforming.

    Now, it was clearly all a lie. If you look at Scarling's myspace page, she's got new photo's of herself dressed like betty page, and she's using her new image to promote her artwork. Also, appearing on something like Germanies next top model hardly demonstrates anything she used to fight for.

    I'm just so disgusted - she doesn't look/act like the same person at all anymore. It was all crap to hide the fact that she obviously wanted to be just like them, all along.

    Also, she's really not very pretty now that she has a gaunt face.
    Ashleigh, Jun 10, 2009
  5. Ashleigh
    Also I'd just like to point out that she isn't a new celebrity - she's been around for a long time, starting at around the same time as marilyn manson. That's an extremely long time to go without conforming, only to wreck it all. It's no excuse - she HAS conformed now. She made a career being herself, and it's only after her band quit that she's obviously trying to raise her profile again.

    I don't mind someone losing weight but she's stick thin, and I'm pretty sure she's had surgery. It's just ridiculous how somebody can be so hypocritical and think their fans won't notice.
    Ashleigh, Jun 10, 2009
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