I am talking the verbal kind, people arguing ex. husbands and wives, or friends or family or whatever... do you just summarize or do you write them out in dialogue? I have a problem with it and I don't know how to approach this because in my current story there are a few occasions when this happens, and in one way I would like to show them because certain issues pop up that describes which kind of relationship these people have, but I don't know how to write them in a good way, without too many bad words, insulting etc. Does anyone have an example on a book where the author have succeeded with this, or should I approach it another way? I cannot remember having read any scenes of this kind, so I honestly don't know what to do. Please help!