I m writing a lady with a daughter lost in a big city, doing different jobs to survive , and later she met someone and started a romance. I want to make it a modren style romance but a real deep love story. Myself is a classic personality, so now i feel it a little hard to find ideas to make it work. Need some oil By the way, If u will decide to date a guy or a lady, what is the first important thing for u? for a guy is the attractive looks, for a lady is the manly character?