At the bottom of the food chain...AGAIN!

The female is a confusing species indeed. Lucky as a Christian, females make it even easier to remain absanant for this very reason lol. My mom would be very happy which is good cause she ahs complete control over my dad who pays my bills.

I actually (call me an odd breed, if you will) tend to go for guys a little bit younger than myself. I've only dated two guys more than two years older than my age range, and I found them both to be condesending know it alls.
It's not that I prefer to be the dominant one or anything, I just kind of like having something to teach a dude. Plus I've had a pretty... eventful life, I guess you could say, and I've discovered I personally like to be the talker and the experienced one.
It's not that I want to take care of guy, I just tend to go for younger ones. Plus, I've found they're a little more fun.
I don't know... I kind of enjoy being close enough within their age range to have an answer for them when they have a problem (I want them to be able to turn to me) while still avoiding the fear that I might intimidate them. I have a tendencie to do that... for some reason. lol

"I've often tried to hold the seas, the sun, the moon, the sky."- LIVE

It's a simple animalistic character humans have.

As biological lifeforms, the need programmed in us is to survive and reproduce.

Girls look at older guys as potentially stronger protection to ensure her and her offspring's survival and thriving.

Guys (who normally go for younger females) look for ideal breeding, which is in young, fresh, and fertile women.

Since our technology is advanced to where it is and none of this really makes a difference in survival or possible reproduction, the rule of thumb is slowly being unprogrammed out of our system, and people are being with whomever they like.


That's how I've seen it at least.

Well I've never put my thought into the age things really, but I always found the thought of being with someone younger, kind of creepy for a female, but acceptable for a male.

I think it is generally that we females at times like a more mature guy to be in a relationship with, while others it doesn't matter. But at the same time, not all older males are more mature. Some are rather immature. I think it really comes down to the maturity levels of the individual and the personality as well.