What are the signs or indicators of " friend potential" in a person you meet?
Here are some for me:
1) Quiet, humble, appears to be genuinely interested in others, good listener
2) Not too opinionated, seems flexible on issues, seems open to different perspectives
3) good humoured but not too derogatory. Still follows basic respect protocol
4) Common ground. I'm likely to be drawn to someone who plays a musical instrument to be honest, for example
5) A bonus for me would be "Christian" or interested in "Christianity". Still my best friend now is Muslim so go figure
6) I do like people who are a little intellectual at least. Interested in literature especially the classics.
7) to add to number 5, I like people interested in the big questions, the meaning of life, spiritual journeys and so on
8) An interest in psychology is also a nice bonus
9) mentally ill welcome , not aggressive ones though
10) rather than someone who "understands" me I am happy for someone who "stands" me.
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