Maybe you need a different kind of dialogue?
Sounds like info-dumpin' mostly.
Instead of the characters goin' on and on about themself, try...
If context there to aid, I don't mind new words.
Hate when they don't have clues.
I like big words.
Different from every-day writing.
I'm Paranormal Romance, P.R for short.
I write romance novels that aren't typical by any standards.
Hopin' bein' here is some help....
Separate names with a comma.