I think the OP means that we spend more time worrying about ourselves, our skills in writing, the world at large rather than forgetting all that, making a hot cup of coffee (or tea) and write.
I don't. I come here for inspiration, to get advice and experience from others, and sometimes give it. I think most writers who visit here do the same, and on occasion, blew off steam. Nothing to worry about at all.
this poster seems to have to much time on his hands and doesn't mind wasting site space or our time....