I have a story I'm working on written in first person, and I never actually describe this character to be a male or female since I could easily see them as either. The name given is intentionally either gender. I am not necessarily aiming for the gender fluid angle, but I'm honestly okay if someone says that is what they get from it. Is the concept of allowing the reader to choose the gender themselves weird? Is it too subtle? Am I giving enough here for a decent conversation?