Hello writers. I am writing a story about a group of bodyguards and the people they have to protect. I have a good grasp on my characters motivations and attitudes, but am struggling with the sexual aspect of my female characters. Specifically, how they talk and joke about sex. The setting is a few decades in the in the future, where men and women are treated equally in every way in all but the most underdeveloped countries. There is no stigma attached to being Gay, Straight, Bi, etc. As I have been writing I have noticed that whenever my female characters joke about sex, or talk about sex, or act in a sexually suggestive manner, it always conforms to my rather bland tastes of female sexuality. I am a straight man who likes hips and breasts. Woohoo. Especially with one of the bodyguards, who is female, I have noticed that whenever she talks about sex she devolves into this boring, breast flashing stereotype. In the rest of the story I have established her character, through her actions and interactions with others, as a violent professional. I don't want to simply remove all female sexual content. Women talk about sex just like men, and in my setting the lack of bias between the genders is supposed to be one of the main themes. Women are treated like equals in my story, but I can't seem to get them to talk like equals. I was wondering if anyone had any insights? How and why do women joke about sex? Are there any good books you have read that depict women talking about sex or flirting casually? How do I put myself in the shoes of a woman flirting with a man just as a joke or to play with him? Thanks in advance! Write everyday!