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*listens to echo and frowns*


geez, quiet night. Oh well! I was a good girl and went for my long walk again! I'm walking with someone that's puching me a bit so that's good. I think I actually look a tiny bit better in the face so yay me!

 

and it's still echoing......

 

Echo echo...

 

Guten abend, DOZ.

 

Hey everyone!

 

Yo! I'm in physics. The college internet is working again

 

Little sir echo how do you do.
how do you do.

That is great Doz. keep up the good work. even if you don't look better quickly I am sure you will feel better.

hope everyone is away because they are busy and not something wrong.

 

Good luck!

Our Collage internet is down all the time.

 

Yeah, I can't say how long it will last, Lemex.

 

I am at home with high speed satelite internet and it is rarely down. Which is a good thing since I would go nuts if it went down a lot.
We did not have computers or internet when I was in college.
But I am not old I am only mature.

 

Like a good cheese?

 

Or a good wine?

 

I apologise for the intrusion but I was really wanting to know how to fall out of love with someone because I'm quite sick of crying, my eyes do not appreciate it, lol.

 

Honestly? You can't. You just have to wait for it to happen. The easiest thing to do in your situation is to hate them, but you'll always know you hate them because you still love them. Sorry I can't help much Eoz. Love hurts.

 

Thanks for the consideration anyway Banzai

and yes, love does hurt, haha.

 

So does life lol.

 

It only hurts until the right one comes along.
Also make your life one with as few hurts as you possibly can.
It is doable but takes a while.
I think age has a lot to do with our lives.
The older you get the less you care about what others think and do.

 

I think you have to acknowledge the love, but also realize that the person may not be right for you. Love is not always enough, and never forget that you need to love yourself at least as much as you love anyone else.

That goes against the self-sacrifice espoused by many faiths, but a core triuth is that real love begins with giving of yourself. If you value yourself, the gift you give means more than if you give something you yourself do not really value.

So make sure that you afford yourself the respect you deserve. If someone constantly brings you to tears, then it may be time to honestly evaluate the bond between you. If miuch of that bond centers on what was rather than what is, then maybe that bond should also be relegated to what was as well - cherished for what it has brought you in insight and growth, but reshaped in its current incarnation for what is best for you now.

 

Thanks Cogito for the wise words, I appreciate it.

And yeah, I really do have to start paying more attention to myself, when it comes to 'self loving', I'm pretty sure I have an issue with my self esteem.

 

I only hope it helps. Even when the mind understands, the heart is very slow on the uptake.

 

Hello my lovelies!

 

Hi all

Just in case you all thought I had gone to meet my maker I am happy to say that I am alive and kicking but slightly overworked at present. So apologies to all for that and please be assured that I will be back to normal(?) as soon as possible

 

Hey heather.

 

Hey YFc, long time no see.

And hey Banzai, how are you tonight?

 

Alright I suppose. Yourself?