So, one of my characters just died. And my world isn't too chaotic right now so they're having a funeral. It starts off with everyone arriving. I don't say who dies until like 1/4 of the way in, because it's a plot twist (the last line of the previous chapter is one guy pretty much dying but he really just lost consciousness, and then in this chapter he gets out of the car with his wife and they walk to the plot where the real dead friend is). It's also a military funeral. He was in two different militaries at two different times so they're both sort of doing their traditions during the event. So, how do I write a funeral? I've never been to one so I'm not really sure what to have the characters say. The tone should obviously be dour and slightly scornful, but I'm struggling with this. Is it too cliche to have it rain? Thanks!