Maybe this break-up with the girl influenced the bitterness in your conclusion. From what I can infer it seems you are leaning towards the "true love should come to me and be undying" kind of thinking. Love is a relationship, and relationships have to be worked on. Love doesn't just happen, you have to make it happen- whether or not it dies is mostly affected by the people involved.
Im talking over the course of a night or weekend, not over a long period of time. You might think your going ok then hey presto your single after a weekend away. Bizzare, is it not? But yet, i hear about it happening often. I realise that its something that doesnt just come - again, thats not what I was trying to imply. Im just saying, to look for it at such a young age is naieve - why not experience life first?
Yeah, I agree with you there Frost. I was good friends with my boyfriend for a couple of years before we got into a relationship. I believe that if you're going to have a relationship, it pays to know the person, who you're interested in, a while before hand. I suppose that's why my first 'relationship' didn't work, I simply didn't know the person who I was dating, too absorbed in this fantasy of 'falling in love'. That's the thing with us young people, we tend to be in love with the idea of being in love, hence we become impatient with waiting for the 'right time' and 'right person', instead throwing ourselves into the arms of whoever will take us. We're all in such a rush to grow up.
Eoz, you're a girl? I always thought you were a dude. Silly me. .......I first thought Frost was a girl, but he's a guy, right? There should be some kind of gender indicator in our profiles.
